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Friday, July 04, 2008
Will Smith's attitude

Here's a great You Tube video of Will Smith talking about choice (in EI terms here - personal power and goal directedness).

If, like me, you love people talking in everyday language, you'll enjoy Will's take on this.

Will Smith Interview with Tavis Smiley

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Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Regard for Others / Other Awareness

An inspirational video that shows the real people potential.

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How long till you burst out laughing?

The Swedish title means How much fun is this?

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Sunday, March 30, 2008
The Power of Standing Still ~ Some reflections for Self Management

This posting is completely taken from Michael Bungay Stanier's Outside the Lines - The Business Edition. I've referred often to Michael's website and newsletters before. He continues to be a great source of inspiration, always with a great practical twist. So here are more of his shared insights. Thanks again Michael!


Let me guess: You're busy


In the last month I've worked with people in Mumbai, Prague, Toronto and London. And in each place I've asked: Who's busy?

The most typical answer I get? A laugh ... just slightly tinged with tiredness and despair.

Who ISN'T busy is perhaps the better question.

There's no getting away from it. Part of the greatest challenge of getting more Great Work into your life is the constant, never-ceasing flood of Good Work that's rushing in at you from all corners.

And that means you're in Processing mode


Work in, work out.

You're uber-efficient, getting stuff done, emails sorted, meetings attended.

In fact, you only realize just how quickly things (and you) are moving when you come back from vacation, and it takes you a day or two to get back into the swing of things, to pick up the pace.

But being busy isn't the road to success.

The 90/10 rule

A 2002 Harvard Business Review article, "Beware the Busy Manager" found that 90% of the managers they surveyed were involved in 'busy work" - and only 10% had the right combination of focus and energy to do the work that matters.

Part of the secret to getting into - and staying in - that 10% is the capacity to stop. And be still. And figure out what's important.

It's the difference between being strategic or staying tactical.

In fact, some say that busyness is a form of laziness. Because you're too lazy to work out what not to do.

The ways stillness helps you

1. Stillness gives you Power

Keith Johnstone is regarded as the father of improvisational theatre. In his book Impro, he talks about one of the key dynamics of this art form, the difference between high status and low status.

If there are two people on stage, one will have high status, the other low. That status is not derived from their nominal roles (In King Lear we can see how a king can be low status and a fool can be high status). It comes from your presence, how you hold yourself.

High status people will hold themselves still. Especially their head and hands.

So, on a personal level, stillness can help you increase your influence by boosting your status.

Action:


Just practice this: Keep your head and hands still as you sit here now in your chair, and notice the shift that occurs in you.

2. Stillness influences the system.

Watch this short video first to see this in action.

Standing still changes how people react to you. It may not be instantly, but soon people will ask: what's going on here?

And it will change what you notice in the system. It can help you notice patterns and to get a "meta" view.

And that new perspective can help you to work out what really matters.

Don't take my word for it

Smart folks thinking out loud about calm and stillness.


"Stillness of person and steadiness of features are signal marks of good breeding."
- Oliver Wendell Holmes, American author

"Few things are brought to a successful issue by impetuous desire, but most by calm and prudent forethought."
-Thucydides, Greek historian

"Activity conquers cold, but stillness conquers heat."
- Lao Tzu, Chinese philosopher

"One's action ought to come out of an achieved stillness: not to be mere rushing on."
- D.H. Lawrence, British author

"Be like a duck. Calm on the surface, but always paddling like the dickens underneath."
- Michael Caine, British actor

"I inherited that calm from my father, who was a farmer. You sow, you wait for good or bad weather, you harvest, but working is something you always need to do."
- Miquel Indurain, Spanish cyclist

"Many a calm river begins as a turbulent waterfall, yet none hurtles and foams all the way to the sea."
- Mikhail Lermontov, Russian poet

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Tuesday, March 04, 2008
Want to Make a Difference?


Visit www.madweekends.tv

This is me going in a slightly new direction and brings together, I believe, the best of my work to date - individual development with a strong focus on quality and the end result of making a difference.

It's for people who want a fresh approach to making a difference - e.g. entrepreneurs, individuals seeking more meaningful use of their time / money, senior managers exploring corporate social responsibility, people choosing new futures through redundancy options or early retirement...

You can also print off the pdf brochure (which is available for download on the website) if you'd like a paper version to pass on to people.
MAD%20Weekends

In celebration of the first ever Make a Difference Weekend (18, 19 and 20 April) you can save 66% of the regular programme price. There are only 24 places available.
You can register your interest on the website.

Come along and be inspired by Cameron Saul (our Saturday evening after dinner speaker) from "one of the most imaginative charities on earth" (The Independent 23/02/08)

Exciting times.

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Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Inspirational energy

As part of our very busy and demanding days, we know it's important to take 10 minutes to switch off, recharge our batteries, energise ourselves and keep centred and inspired. Knowing it and doing it are different though. Applied EI is about putting into practice what we know is important for ourselves and our relationships, and that involves maintaining good energy levels.
I've found this resource a wonderful energy tonic for my self management recently.

Sit back and enjoy.

sunrise

I particularly like the moose one!

Warm wishes for Xmas and an inspired 2008.

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Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Inspiration burst


The breeze at dawn has secrets to tell you. Don't go back to sleep.
You must ask for what you really want. Don't go back to sleep.
People are going back and forth across the doorsill where the two worlds touch.
The door is round and open. Don't go back to sleep.


(Thanks to Steve Nobel.
Source Rumi ~ Persian Poet.)

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Thursday, August 16, 2007
Small steps to make a difference

Gimundo.com (delivering good news daily) reported that an all-black Google home page saves 750 megawatt-hours of electricity a year. An all-white web page requires about 74 watts to display, whereas a black page requires only 59 watts.
750 megawatt-hours can power for an entire year:
77 North American homes
150 European homes
268 African homes
536 Asian or South American homes
3,750 homes in Afghanistan
6,000 televisions
800 microwaves

An Australian company called Heap Media have created a Google-powered site called blackle.com. The site keeps a running total of the number of watts saved to date. At press time, that number was nearly 135 million watt-hours.

I've made Blackle my home page.

Find out more about Blackle.

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